Rejection, competition, fear of failure, family expectations,
humiliation, feeling worthless, insomnia and surroundings are some of the many
reasons to put oneself in depression.
Now the question emanates here that ‘What is Depression’? Is it sadness
or grief due to some unfortunate situation? Not at all, it’s more than sadness;
society perceives it wrongly. Anybody can experience it irrespective of
economic conditions, relationship and networking. Sometimes, there is nothing
wrong and everything feels perfect but a person falls into depression. Its
normal, its natural, it’s not a matter of ‘lack’ of faith always. It’s a phase
that keeps striking at regular intervals but persistency is not good at all as
it leads to clinical depression, a dangerous condition for which treatment must
be sought.
Some experts contemplate it mood disorder owing to a persistent feeling
of sadness, loss of interest, which may lead to a variety of physical and
emotional problems such as inferiority complex, hopelessness associated with
other disorders. One must understand that it’s a combination of both
psychological and physical factors. Psychological factors include
sleeplessness, loneliness, negative thoughts, failures, which give rise to
physical factors such as chemical imbalances in the brain associated with
serotonin (happy chemical), dopamine (feel-good chemical) and cortisol (stress
hormone) abnormality. It’s not as simple as it is made out to be. It really
needs psychological and pharmacological treatments and medical aid, same as for
fever or any other disease as per National Institute of Mental Health.
The World Health Organization (WHO) refers to depression as a mental
disorder as over 260 million people of all ages undergo from this menace and
almost 0.8 million suicides are reported globally. WHO further termed it a
leading cause of disability worldwide and is a major contributor to the overall
global burden of disease.
In today’s scenario, youngest generation is suffering from this dilemma,
which may lead to deep disappointment because they are overemotional, excited
and reactive. The USA alone identified 10% of adults struggling with
depression. No doubt, adolescence is always troubling because of
surroundings. Teens are often troubled and taunted by conflicting messages from
parents, relatives, friends and society, hence making them feel that their
lives are surrounded by darkness. They are confused, uncertain, shy, stressed
and hopeless. Even small kids are taking pills. This may increase the use of
narcotics. Teens and Adults guidance is the need of the hour more than ever. To
get fruitful results, courses to cope with these stresses must be there at all
levels in school and colleges. Moreover, in our society, ‘psychiatrist’ is
scary and terrifying word. Many of us do not like to be referred to
psychiatrist. No it’s not that simple, it can even kill you or make your life
miserable. Factors are numerous, it’s not only economical or financial
otherwise UK would not have launched Ministry of loneliness.
At some point, we all have been through depression due to feeling empty,
sleeplessness, and darkness with no sign of dawn, failures, infinite pain, no
relief, losing interest, excitement, loss of appetite, restlessness and feeling
worthlessness. It happens due to our surroundings, relatives, friends, family
members and expectations. The impact of these feelings can alleviate over time
so it cannot be termed as depression.
But overthinking and persistency of these negative thoughts along with
surroundings makes it Pandora box of darkness that surrounds you badly and this
may lead to physical changes in the body. It could have some impact on bodily
cells and organs particularly stomach. For this, medical attention is
mandatory.
However, to cope with the evil of depression, stress management is
essential. Remember, we are our own hero to manage it in a best possible way
through connection with nature like feeling the cool breeze of the morning, the
rising of sun and walking barefooted on wet grass. One may cope with depression challenge by
preparing breakfast, socializing, meeting beloved ones and sharing what bothers
or hurts, changing dietary habits and monotonous routine, increasing water
intake to dilute stress hormones, company of kids, melodious voices of birds,
innovation, book reading, movies, songs, shopping, exercise treating others with love and by managing sleeping pattern.
Haider Ali is young professional works as a Health Safety &
Environment Officer in Shaukat Khanum Memorial Cancer Hospital and Research
Centre (SKMCH & RC), holds a degree in MPhil Environmental Science from
Government College University, Lahore. He writes on burning issues and has been
involved in various projects.